emotionally detaching myself and i don't want to

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my daughter loves him. she was reluctant at first bc it had been just the two of us for so long and she got all of my attn. now she says that we were made for each other and are perfect together. and we do laugh a lot. and others say they can see that he loves me in his eyes.

you all have given me a lot to think about. i am by nature a pollyanna type and an optimist. H is a pessimist who wishes he was an optimist.

i haven't decided what to do, other than contact a counselor. i think that is obviously a smart choice for both of us, and the kids too.

thanks guys, for responding to my pleas.