I forgot to add to my post that H did not go out and buy extravagant items, not even for OW. The most he ever did was take her to a nice hotel summer of '06 and that was it.

I know, I have a very strange MLCer!!!!!!!!!!

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19