trying, this friend of mine has 5 kids and is a pediatrician. She is amazing to us, think house calls at 2am, prescriptions written with no office visit....H totally understood why I cancelled. He even came down to help.
I am so sorry about your H lately. Detaching is good, but the reason why is painful. Thinking of you.
And yes, I will accept his offer next time, even if there is no R talk. Just time with him might be a good thing.....