The tone was still friendly - no hostility - this has been the case for the 3-4 times she's called/met in the last month or so. I'm still not sure how to interpret this - either she wants to be closer or she's quite happy with being separated, free of me and financially well off?!
W is in a zone with no pressure from you, and you are not pursing her so you need to keep that balance, keep her in that mood. Effectively you've dropped the rope and she's floating around in her new freedom. She's gonna do some more floating, maybe even some mad stuff before she comes back to you. So be prepared for some ups and downs. But keep talking to her and keep it friendly, even when it comes to money.
Hey, try this when you next talk to her, "I'm not sure when we can next meet, so can you schedule something which is convenient for you" this puts the onus back on her for your next meeting.
It's good that you are working out, it's good for PMA and self confidence. I stopped going out really when I got married. But since working out, buying new cloths, and hitting the town with new friend, the women are positively attracted to me. I'm like the me of 15 years ago. Unfortunately for them I'm not in a position to take advantage of it, but it's a great ego booster for me. Should work for you to if you try it.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing
