Hey Tostada,

DB is the overall process which supports us but each individual has to refine it to suit their needs. So at times you just gotta do what you gotta do if it works. In saying that there's a whole bunch more of us rooting for you.

It seems like your W is making a last stand cos things are not going her way, so she is going to hit you with all sorts, from direct abuse to guilt tripping you. Stand firm on the things you have decide to, whilst softening your answer with an explanation as to why you are doing it. Make sure you don't rise to any angered response from W.

This is going to be a difficult phase for you, whether she files or not, we all trust you to handle it at your DB best.

Good luck fella.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing