Bravo! You've done really well! No matter what she says to the kids, you will continue to tell them how much you love them and want to be with them. They'll believe you. Trust me. She's trying to use the kids to get you to continue to let her have her cake and eat it to. Sorry, lady. Doesn't work like that!
I know about the "harmless" phone calls. We have "harmless" phone calls on our cell phone bill too. 90min calls at 2am, text messages, etc... All excused by my husband as "she's just a friend." OK.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."