Back at DB/new marriage new WAW part 2

[mako]

I agree dh. It's not your job to make things easier for her, and putting the nanny in the middle isn't good either. W knows what she is supposed to do to visit the kids, let her do it by the book. It might be different if she was more amicable, but if she's going to be flying off the handle like that then it sounds best to make her follow the proper channels...just be sure to be receptive to her if she does follow the proper channels, so that folks like the judge can see that you are playing fair and square and by the book.