Look at jar, out on the town with new kickers...smelling all yummy.
That is the stuff GAL is made of. You may not know how to get back out there (did we want to? NO!), but you are doing it. I am glad you aired out the laundry with W, because she needed to hear what you had to say, and I think she listened.
Glad to see the time with OM (when she has your D's) is less and less. If it got to be more and more, that could be something used against her.
Keep it up jar. She might be waking up, and I know she is scared of losing you.