Thanks. Thats a great way to look at it! This way I can break each moment down and accept it for what it is. You know, keep it simple with no expectations.
I just realized how hard expectations can make an R. Its a lot of pressure especially if you try and mind read and act in a way you think the S wants instead of yourself. But communication is what stops that and prevents you from walking on eggshells. Its too bad I had to learn that the hard way.