Well, I think I have been blessed since H moved out of the house 06/06!!

He has paid the bulk of the bills since that time and a year ago, we refinanced the house to get a lower interest rate.

Lately, he has been offering to pay for my auto repairs and when he visits on weekends, he will say, "Did you know you are almost out of such and such?" And I will thank him for telling and say that I will get more the following day. He always comes back with, "That's okay, I will go to the store and get it for you." He never asks me to pay him back either, and he has been filling my gas tank, too. And he never, ever complains about the finances either.

He does not contribute to OW and that place as all of his money comes our direction.

I used to be a stay at home mom, which I loved to do, and he has mentioned that he might want me to do that again even though I work part-time. I just love to be home and take care of the house and bake for my family.

This is how our financial situation has played out since he left.

Last edited by steelersfan; 01/05/08 01:23 AM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19