the other thing is that I worry that H has such a long way to go in financial sitch, he will never grow up. In a way I get why he is with a 22-year-old.

It seems that most men in MLC have at least established financial independence and learned to deal with money, even if irresponsibly.

H is resentful because he can't support himself in the lifestyle to which he became accustomed.

The other thing I worry about is that he will try to come back because it is easier.

Last edited by breton39; 01/05/08 01:30 AM.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D