I got home from work today and found a note and my husband's wedding ring on my pillow. I had given him some papers I had printed from this site so he could read them. The note was on those papers saying that I needed the papers more than he did and that I wasn't trying but he was. He's upset because I didn't go stay at his parent's house on New Year's Eve and I told him that my daughter would be working this weekend during the day on Saturday and Sunday if he wanted to come out to see me one of those days. He is claiming that he loves me, but I don't love him.
I'm thinking that either he ran out of pot and was in a bad mood so he lashed out at me (his personality changes when he runs out of pot) or he's meeting up with some woman for wild sex since he thinks that pot, music and wild sex are the important things in life.
I hate to say it, but I can't work on a relationship based on this. As near as I can tell, since we have separated he has not made any attempt to get a job. I think he is jealous because my daughter just got a job. He has been in competition with her since he moved in her. Kind of silly for a 48 year old to compete with a 16 year old.
