And the place will be tossed like a prison guard searching for shivs and contraband. Sneaky Fs. Always trying to deposit "territory markings" in out of the way places that other Fs might see.
LOL- Okay, I admit I did try to put a temporary tattoo in the shape of a heart on GP's *ss but I was just being funny. When I'm serious about such matters I go right for the nipple hickey.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
He told me not to sleep with him unless I trusted him. I believe his exact words were something along the lines of "Because if a woman doesn't trust me I can smell it, taste it.."
Ironic. Too bad he can't smell or taste his own lack of trust, hm? What, ince he's so big on trust and all apparently.
Maybe one of those "too close to it so can't see it" things.
Don't make me search for your post. Far too lazy today. Think on your GGG thread or earlier. You made an innocently loyalty-showing comment about volunteering to take his loot to Switzerland. I took it just as you intended, seeing as, judging from your reported monogamy through rough times, you seem to be nothing if not loyal.
But GP chose to respond:
Yeah, I just bet you would. You would meet some handsome stranger on the plane and blah blah...
Many a truth is said in jest and at that moment I thought, wow, he doesn't trust her. He just let it leak.
I didn't call him back right away so he called me about an hour later and was like all Bad Daddy "Didn't you get my message." as in "I'm back in town so you best haul *ss back into the corral little bunkey even though I've been out and about doing whatever I so desire."
A WHOLE hour, huh? **Note to Ms(** Do not do this. This is F repellent in pungent concentrate form. BTDT after the A.
It's understandable I might act that CF way after not knowing how to handle such A trauma but an M acting this way in a relatively new chemical phase and major issue-free R leaks later control freak issues down the road. Saw some other instances of GP CF but why rain on an F's parade?
To which my internal response was "No." but my external response was all saccharine politeness and that's when he complimented me for being the "least vengeful woman he ever dated" and thereby sealed his fate.
I'm sure the CF contributed but I'm going to say his chronic channeling your good guy RL daddy, make sure you put on a warm jacket with those little 4th grader hands, is what really killed it for you, Mojo, whether you're aware of it or not.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
I'm sure the CF contributed but I'm going to say his chronic channeling your good guy RL daddy, make sure you put on a warm jacket with those little 4th grader hands, is what really killed it for you, Mojo, whether you're aware of it or not.
Well, my first clues that he might be a CF could have been:
1) Addicted to Resident Evil video game. 2) Constantly wears headset on which he calls me very frequently. 3) Tells me I look like a thick blond Milla Jovovich.
The "keep warm" type comments were a minor but manageable turn-off. The 4th grader hands comments were actually a bit of a turn-on because they made me notice how huge his hands were. I think you hit the nail on the head with your "lack of trust" observation. I can't handle the pressure of being in a relationship where I have to prove myself to be completely trustworthy because I'm not. I can't be dating a Ricky Ricardo who might think I'm capable of cheating on him just because I ate the last cookie and didn't 'fess up. My monkey needs some wiggle room to really get shakin'.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Mojo- Interesting new program on Lifetime on Friday nights called "Matched in Manahttan." The guy is a professional matchmaker. His tips about first dates and fixing up your apartment are really cool. I KNOW this sounds lame to you, but give it a look before you decide it has no merit. I think you'll be entertained. It's only a half hour.
I think he knew you were trustworthy, Mojo, and I think that was the problem.
Those bet-you'll-meet-a-handsome-stranger-on-the-plane comments simply mean "I'm going to pretend I don't see you for what you are, because then I'd have to play straight with you. Not used to that. Uncomfortable feeling. No like. Better we both keep pretending. Somebody. Help?"
