Like I said. Have yet to meet a high quality F impervious to jealousy.
I remove my chivalrous cap and respectfully bow to you for your temerity in accomplishing such a daunting task, Mojo.
LOL- Well, like you said, women usually get jealous if they perceive the OW to be more "hot". Once you become as objective about objectification as me you don't really emotionally react to the fact that another woman is more "hot". It would be like a guy emotionally reacting to the fact that he drives a Pick-up and the guy next door drives a Mercedes. If he really wants to be the owner of a Mercedes there are efforts he can make in that direction and/or if he wants to get full value for his Pick-Up on the open market he should look for buyers with stuff to haul.
For instance, one of the guys I am hanging with now likes his women big, curvy, soft and tall. He told me an amusing story about the one time he dated a little skinny woman. He made the sex sound like a Rottweiler choking on a chicken bone. I would actually be "hotter" in his book if I sat around for a few months on the sofa eating bon-bons and not exerting myself too much. Should I feel jealous if he chose a woman more exactly his type of "hot" than me. Why should I be any more jealous if I was with a guy whose standards were more conventional?
The same holds true for any other kind of thing beyond "hotness" I might feel jealous about. Either I don't have it and I can't have it so no effort will matter or I don't have it because I've made the choice not to make the effort to get it so I need to live with that choice.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
