What. He didn't jump through enough of your forgiveness hoops so pulled the "I'm gonna hold my breath till I turn blue until you forgive me for pulling the stool to the counter, mommy" little boy scowl?
Hm, your detachment concerning polygamy now makes more sense.
Not that simple. First off, I actually kind of doubt that he stepped out on me sexually. You have to remember that he was pushing for commitment/monogamy more than me. He told me not to sleep with him unless I trusted him. I believe his exact words were something along the lines of "Because if a woman doesn't trust me I can smell it, taste it.." Also, he was too health-conscious about such matters to take polygamy very lightly. However, he was up to something and lying to me about it but I still don't know exactly what it was. Anyways, he hadn't called me in a few days which was unusual and I was running a fever and he left a message on my voice mail along the lines of "Hey baby, I've been out of town and I just got back blah, blah, blah." and I didn't feel like dealing because of the fever so I didn't call him back right away so he called me about an hour later and was like all Bad Daddy "Didn't you get my message." as in "I'm back in town so you best haul *ss back into the corral little bunkey even though I've been out and about doing whatever I so desire." To which my internal response was "No." but my external response was all saccharine politeness and that's when he complimented me for being the "least vengeful woman he ever dated" and thereby sealed his fate.
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Well, and, judging from his history, GP is obviously a man who is incapable of maintaining/sustaining a 20 year R -- no matter how flawed it may have been.
His longest relationship was 12 years with the female body builder who was the mother of his first son. He was a flawed human being like the rest of us. Your first clue should have been his desire to date anyone as bunkey as me.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
