It signals that I'm not afraid of the competition 'cause I'm not. F*ck whoever you want and don't concern yourself with any jealousy on my part. Save your concern for the guy who has reserved a bit more of his time and energy for Mojo maintenance 'cause he's next in line if you slack off. Chop-chop.
Hm. I get the philosophy but have found it a little more difficult in terms of practical RL application.
For instance. I once had this slightly older lover; cute petit busty doctor who admitted to me later she got hot for me while examining me in her exam room.
Made it clear she was detached from anything more than sexual from day one. Could do whatever I wanted. Worked for me.
Ah, but then one day after a particularly intense window-rattling weekend session at her apt., she curled up like a cat on my ample lap on her recliner and purred:
"I ... um ... I reallly .... REALY .... (big pause...deliberating...deliberating...remembering her silly rule) like you."
Shame on her. She lied to me. Boo hoo. I agreed to her demands and remained impartial. She couldn't.
I walked away and I'm pretty sure, since F biology usually overrides self-imposed logic framework, she convinced herself I was the bad guy cad.
I doubt she tried that tactic again. I really have yet to meet an F who can remain so impartial - non-jealous for any modicum of time. At least not any F of real quality above, say, strippers or gold diggers ... both of whom hijack Ms skulls and make them behave in some really really insane power-hemorrhaging castrated ways.
The strippers, usually abused, are usually so damaged they get drunk with male manipulation powerr and are, therefore detached from a lack of overall respect for the male gender and are fine with polygamy -- maybe even throw in some three and foursomes with other Fs without even an eye twitch over her man doing another F right in front of her (usually b/c she's hot for the F too in omnivore fashion)
The gold diggers are usually princesses who begrudgingly blow the old gnarly king to live in material luxury while chasing after handsome immature alpha male princes and are therefore detached due to their overarching narcissism -- which, when a M slacks off, as you say, they just go find another toy to play with.
Like I said. Have yet to meet a high quality F impervious to jealousy.
I remove my chivalrous cap and respectfully bow to you for your temerity in accomplishing such a daunting task, Mojo.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
