I believe you were decived by this man in who/what he was before you married him. Apparently he was looking for somebody to give him a good home and there you were with the job and plus you cooked and washed his clothes and kept the house. All he had to do was pay you a few compliments and your heart melted.
I hate to sound so harsh b/c you sound like a very nice lady, but sweetheart he has no respect or love for you. No H would treat his new bride the way this man has treated you. Either that or he has some very serious mental problems.
I appreciate your strong feeling toward you wedding vows but God doesn't condemn you for not living with somebody that doesn't love you back. That part is up to you. Nobody should have to beg for love and even if you aren't saying it in words.....he sees the desparation in you and it is turning him off.
Have you read the Divorce Remedy yet? If not, get it ASAP and read it and start applying the principles if you want to continue living with him. Have you met any of his relatives or people from his past that has known him for a long time? They might could enlighten you on a few things. I don't trust people like this.....guess I've see too much TV.
The more you can tell us the more advice you'll receive. I would suggest getting a professional's advice most of all.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
