emotionally detaching myself and i don't want to

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i agree with you rhw. it doesn't seem normal. i don't believe he is having an affair. he is home all the time, except when he goes to work. at work, i know he is there bc i see his check stubs and his company doesn't play with the time thing.

i know he is depressed and he has seen a dr abt that. they gave him a med but that really only made a difference in that he didn't cry at sad commercials anymore. but he doesn't see a counselor to try to work out the issues that brought him to the dr in the 1st place.

i think we let the sitch get out of hand and we got married sooner than we should have. but i can't change that. i just need to know what to do now.

do i just play his game and say no now too? do i just live here more like a roommate and less like a w? i know it isn't normal. if you love someone, you actually sacrifice to give them what they want, just bc you love them. that's what i do. i am just so confused.