Hi Fish. So glad to see things are going good for you. I don't stop by the board much anymore, but for some reason I did today, and was so happy to see your post.

Things didn't go the way I had hoped for me. I am divorced now, and my XH had a baby with the OW. They are not together. After he told me he wanted the divorce for sure last January, they lasted all of one week together, unfortunately for all involved she ended up pregnant from that "reunion."

I know I am better off without him, and things have been great for me, but I am still dealing with the idea of the baby. He has all but abandoned our kids. He blames me for their anger towards him, but he burned a lot of bridges last year. The thing that bothers me the most is he acts like it's no big deal, "these things just happen." I don't thing he has an ounce of guilt or regret. I guess that tells me his journey is far from being over.

Anyway, it's good to hear from you, and I hope things continue moving forward for you. Take care.

Lael