I understand all that, but *most* men don't bring up swinger conventions, call their ex-girlfriend who is a stripper while their wife is standing there trying to be sexy for him, tell his wife that kissing her other than a peck is "gross" and won't even move the dog from between you when you are asking him to hold you. I don't get it at all. He might be a wonderful guy in some ways, but that just all doesn't sound normal to me.

I'm going to be the first to throw it out there & say that I would be very suspicious that he's having some sort of affair.

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 01/04/08 09:50 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10