Ok everyone-I need advise quickly!!! I just got home from work and my H finally had stopped by during the day to take the dog for a walk. He left me a note telling me this (as I previously had asked him to inform me when he does). The note said: "The dog and I had a nice walk. Thank you for allowing these times. I took a few items from the house that I forgot. I hope your mending. Sorry about the run in we had last weekend at the rest./bar, have someone inform me where you will be and I'll avoid you for now, or whatever?". OMG, do I text him back or what? I am shocked he came into my house again so soon, as I didn't think I would hear from him for a long while. I don't really know how to respond or feel right now. I feel like saying "thanks for walking the dog, and that you dont have to worry about trying to avoid me unless that is what you want". I am so confused, I don't know whether to think: he is checking in on me and somewhat apologizing, or if he is accepting that he just really doesn't want to ever be with me again. I have gotten that feeling this time that he really doesnt ever think that we could repair this M. He is being way more kind and pleasent than the first time he left me. It is weird and scarey because I feel he has somewhat matured and realized that he has caused a lot of pain, but simply doesn't have it in him to make-up for it all. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!! Tipper
