emotionally detaching myself and i don't want to

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he doesn't like to hear emotional things. so when things get emotional, he says anything to avoid the conversation. and make me quit talking. hence the shutting me up.

and we had talked about porn issues, etc, while we were dating. i asked all those questions. and it was bam on the wedding night. he had said before that porn didn't do anything for him and he didn't like it. he admitted he had seen some (who hasn't?) but that he didn't care for it. on the wedding night, he did say it was an accident, but of course i didn't/don't believe that.

he is a person who keeps his feelings to himself. totally.

and of course, i am laying the problem out on the table and not the man. he has so many great qualities that any woman would want. he is very attractive, a good dad, loves kids and animals, tells you how beautiful you are, notices when you have changed your hair or brought a new dress, etc. but i can't put all that in there too.

bottom line is i want to be with him forever. i really do. every cell in my body does. but i am frustrated on this one subject and am looking for solutions.