The one thing I noticed over & over again was him saying something to "shut you up." What is it that he is trying to shut up over & over again? I don't get that.
I also don't understand how you could have known him for a year and then bam on your wedding night, he's all of a sudden "accidentally" ordering a porn movie. All of the things you have talked about him doing seem so bizarre and *not quite normal* to me and it just seems odd that he didn't act like this before.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not *blaming* you for not seeing something before marrying him or anything, I just don't think, FROM WHAT YOU HAVE DESCRIBED HERE, that he is quite "right."
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10