obviously it shows a lack of differentiation if your H's response to those behaviors determines your self-respect or pride.
Well, I did put question marks after those because I couldn't think of the right terminology.
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I would think that you were pretty confident and cool to be able to do those things with no response and I would bet the bank that if you acted like you were confident and cool when you did them you would either get f8cked or your H would go.
Maybe. The thing that makes the two of us different is that I lose my attraction for a man if he doesn't show attraction back. I think that is a self-protection mechanism I guess on my part. I wouldn't have been able to live in your M with your H but that is me. You probably would have been having hot sex with my H long before I ever did if you were his W. lol.
