Karen, I say your H has his porn stash or fetish interests, some place online.
And I see your H as being different than LFL’s H. He is different than HoneyPot’s H.
He only takes sex with you on top and you have to basically F him, provide most of the action. That is something I don’t understand.
I take bottom position because BB doesn’t like me on top anymore. I haven’t mastered the levitation thing so topside for me means short nookie time, and I like to linger and play.
I wonder if he has some abuse in his past, maybe lots of religious shame, and what about gender role confusion?
I know how to act in a “Me man, you woman world,” but have trouble operating in a women’s lib setting. Then there is the politically correct model, which is sometimes more confusing.
Does your H have any trouble in that area? Withdrawing or becoming stubborn doesn’t count as appropriate.
I like your ideas for a plan of action from the RJ, Corri et al, post so far.
