Bombadier I read over your last post and may have made an observation. You say your W's mother began drinking when her husband died, blew all her money. Could your W's mom have experience a MLC of her own, triggered by H's death? I don't believe hereditary mlc is a given, but I have seen some generational patterns on theseboards.
Both of my W's birth parents had an mlc in my opinion (see above reference to their divorce). I have no idea if its a genetic disposition or behavioral but I really believe there are patterns repeated from one generation to the next on these boards. Even the age posters have mentioned behaviors occuring you can sometimes see a pattern between parents and children. My wife is the same age her mother was when her parents split up.
Doesn't really affect what we're going through (it doesn't matter why that photon torpedo was fired at you, just that its coming and gonna really put a crimp in your flight when it hits).
Maybe one day medical researches will study this and come up with a treatment for it. There's a pill for almost everything now, seems they don't have much left to work on.
Last edited by sleeper; 01/04/0806:19 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.