Yes, quite the little paradox you've set up for yourself there Mojo. Is that another forum hair shirt I see over there by that Beyonce hoodie? Hmmm?
What, exactly, are your swains supposed to ask you to commit to? Dang. Sounds like a nice setup. Why on Earth would a guy want to mess it all up by commiting to you?
LOL- Well, obviously he needs to ask me to commit to not moving on to the next guy who appreciates even more what a nice setup it is- duh. Can't count on endless free milk if the cows still up for sale. I'm cool with a guy being polygamous even though I'm monogamous as long as it's understood that my monogamy is only serial until I'm asked to commit. Also, strong monkey might do some damage to a boy's ability to be polygamous whilst sharing my company. Plus, sometimes it's hard for a guy to deal with the thought of a future lacking in quality time with my pilgrim soul which although it is not actually to be found between my legs tends to leave a relationship along with what is found there when my boots get to walking.
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Here's how I would look at your profile should I be foolish enough to lower my standards in terms of F availability (easy, not in terms of your appeal zoo girl):
Cool. Look at this one. Check her pic and her saucy emails. Best part? Dude, she's separated. Best of both worlds. I'm gonna respond to her right now.
I get a 40-something F, who's probably not looking to have my baby, lots of hot sex and, best part?....
drum roll...
Zero commitment expectations from me since she's married and separated.^5
"I'd say that's a nice buffer to F her silly after probably a lot of years to make up for from her M and she won't go all 'I want a commitment from you blah blah blah ... you're just a player blah blah blah.'"
Well, because you really are a nice guy, you make it clear to a girl that you aren't a nice guy when you respond to her profile, right? I only respond to men who signal St.Bernard AND Wolf. I am open to the possibility of commitment but not insisting on it from every guy I f*ck or fall "in love" with (my profile is sadly lacking in statements such as "I don't play games") and I want to hook up with guys who are operating from a similar position. Believe it or not, GP was not "playing" me. He really does want to get married at this point in his life and he was seriously infatuated with me for a while so was considering me as a candidate. Yup, men get foolishly infatuated too. Funny world we live in. You, of course, are impervious to that kind of thing being all currently wolf-like and therefore invulnerable. The thing that isn't computing with you, I know, is that I remained highly sexually attracted to GP even though he was rather foolishly infatuated with me. Could it be that he was manifesting strong wolf AND puppy at the same time? How is that possible?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
