Just bought a 1 way non-refundable ticket to Dtown

[Michael Mc C]

Im not sure comfortable I am working on us when she is living with OM.

I agree that the two of you cannot really work on the marriage if she's living with the OM but remember you are in the very beginning stages. Who knows what plans she has for OM or for your marriage for that matter. Maybe they have had a falling out and he may very well be on his way out the door as it is.

Or, sad to say, she may just be weighing her options right now. Remain with the status quo - keep the positive attitude and continue with GAL. She is still going to be a bit on the wary side as well I imagine.

Just need to take it slow.