H4C,

I think that now you are going to have to back off, and let your w do what she needs to.
She knows what needs to happen, and if you push to hard she could go running back into the tunnel again.
So have patience, and detach, you have to right now, it is so important!
I also know it will be the hardest to do because you are on the cusp of something major.
She is going to have a tremendous about of guilt and this is going to keep her from really acting rationally for sometime, so prepare for that.
So stay strong and calm, and just try and sit back and see where this is going to go.


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda