Sun, If this man isn't rebelling I don't know what is. He knows that you can't stand DN and his wife and their trashy behaviors, and yet, he's bound and determined to shove them in your face. Sun, I know that the evening was a bust for you. I think I would let him think about what he's done for a while. I don't think I would say anything to him about it. The less you say, the less he'll do this kind of crap again. He's pushing your buttons and is hoping that you'll make a scene in front of this trashy group.
Sun, I'm so sorry. I had hoped he would have left a while ago, but it looks like to me that he's trying to get you to leave or put him out. I think it's going to come down to you opening the door and shoving him out before February.
Please take care of yourself. I worry about you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
