Then if on Sunday he says "I'm out of here if you don't stop this behavior." I can say "Bye-Bye.
Well, as a fellow submissive, I don't think I could pull off those 3 points and still keep my sense of...self respect?....pride?....if my H didn't respond back. And what if he doesn't say "I'm outta here?" Eventually YOU are the one responsible MJ. Why keep putting the decision off on him, right? But I guess that's why you stayed in your M so long. It's complicated when you have a life invested. It will certainly be much easier to pull off with your new suitors.