well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[limbo]

(((Cat))))

This reminds me so much of my H back in August....the day after getting back from holidays, he tells me he is going to leave, that he had been back with the ow for about 5 weeks. He said that he thought that he could make it work, and couldn't, so was going to leave.
I talked to him and said that does he think it would be better with her, would his life be better, easier. Would she love and care for him like had? And left it at that. He to left to go for a walk, I thought for certain he was going to be with ow.
But he came back, and wanted to know why I loved him, and why I wanted him to stay, and I just told him that I loved him, and he was my everything.
He later admitted that it was the guilt, that drove him back to her, also I believe it was because I told him that he couldn't have women for friends, like he used to.
He said that he just didn't feel like he deserved me, and the kids, and that he didn't want the kids growing up with his morales.
But here we are today and it seems that we are through the worst, H is also back with his C, before I don't think he was ready to work this through, and do what he needed to. But now he seems to really be working on things.
So if your H can work through the guilt issue's and come to terms with it, then he will be moving in the right direction.
I can't remember, but is he on any AD? Because they will also help.

Take it easy, and look after yourself!