Today I'm wondering if I am in countdown mode. I have one month left of the 3months I asked H to wait before any legal action. I don't know that he will fill anything next month. H still hasn't come out and said he wants a D. The last time we talked at all about the R was 3 weeks ago and there was little discussion.
Do you think he still remembers the 'wait 3 months' conversation? I'm of the mind that if he wanted to file, he would have just filed already. Your H has it pretty easy right now, so I can't imagine he'd want to 'rock the boat'.
Maybe three months ago I asked W if she would wait before making any decisions - She went nuts, screamed at me, told me I was controlling and that she'd do what she wanted. Of course, she hasn't done a damn thing...
