Hi Ladybug--

My H could be your H with the meaness and the wishy washy. I get very similar treatment. Anyway, my H is a Sheriff. I often thought this behavior could be related to his job. Do you think so. I know that cops and sheriffs are nortorious for having affairs and I hate to say it, but alot of the single cops and sheriffs in our town are known for being mean jerks to their wives. I wonder how much of his behavior might be related to folks that he works with. I am just curious. I have wondered that about my husband. I saw some signs of jerkiness when we were dating, but none of the mess I am getting now. I just have a hard time beliveving that a bunch of cops and sheriffs are advising my husband on working on his marriage. I hate this all so much.