Today I'm wondering if I am in countdown mode. I have one month left of the 3months I asked H to wait before any legal action. I don't know that he will fill anything next month. H still hasn't come out and said he wants a D. The last time we talked at all about the R was 3 weeks ago and there was little discussion. H wasn't ready to move back and he still hasn't shown willingness to work on the R. As far as I know H still hasn't made any effort to find a place of his own. Staying w/ a friend still and stopping by everyday for clean clothes and to see Ds. Has anyone out there figured out yet how to read the WAS's mind?