FLTC, it could be just the way she is due to her life experience and personality. And it will be impossible for her to change unless she recognize the issues and want to change herself. I'm thinking she probably won't get it until she's in the same rut again with her next R. It's just too bad that sometimes they have to learn it that way.... I keep hoping/praying that my W figures things out before it's too late....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.