It was a mean thing for her to say. Sometimes though I don't think they realize how hurtful those comments can be to us LBS's. Once in a while my MIL or FIL will say something and it stings. I have asked them both kindly to not talk about her to me. I don't want to know anything that H has said about OW. It makes it easier for all of us I think. My MIL is trying to find out all the information she can on OW. I think this is a mistake. I have told her so. I suggested she just leave it alone. But, I can't control her. I told her that I don't want any information about OW. I am content pushing her out of my mind and treating her as if she is NOTHING.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him