Though Ive though of it, I havent and probably will not risk myself by confronting OM for fear I may be too angry and end up in jail risking not being there for my daughter.
My wife's brother has been very vocal to her regarding what she was planning. She was planning on bringing the OM out with her brother and his girlfriend and his response was similar to "someone will get hurt".
I know the OM's address. It's 400 miles away. My BIL is more than happy to accompany me so we can have a talk with him. It's just not worth it. I cannot destroy my life, my career and the lives of my children because my W has decided to carry on the way she has. By stepping in and trying something drastic I would be throwing myself into her mess and creating my own.
I have spoken to OM but in no way been threatening. You need to realize that confronting him may not produce the desired results and any interference could drive them closer together and your wife farther away from you.
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EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07
