...and just for the record, did my W ever attempt to add a little romance to our R herself? Not a chance! In her words, "it's the man's job to pursue the woman" Yup, once again it was all my job! She just complained, sat back, waited, judged and criticized my efforts! Funny, when I tell other women all the various things I did to create some romance their eyes get soft, and they sigh as though they wish someone would do those things for them. Coffee Buddy actually had tears in her eyes when I told her about the heart shaped sandwiches! My W was just determined that we were done and nothing I did could ever make a difference, yet I did keep trying....and, yes, I did sit and listen to W's problems hour upon hour but, apparently, I don't know how to listen either yet she could go on for two to three hours at a time! I'd excuse myself for a minute to use the washroom and she'd say "see, you don't really want to listen to me" Holy sh!t, when you gotta go you gotta go!!! OK, this rant is over!
