I think her mother has had some positive influence though. I've noticed that OM hardly spends the night or W and kids rarely spend the night over there. I believe mom put her up to that. I'm guessing she threatened her. I got my girls Ohio State cheerleading uniforms for the game and need to get a turtleneck or long sleeve T-shirt for them and asked what the best way to get it to her over the weekend would be.. she stated "We aren't spending the night anywhere.. we'll be here."
I'm just starting the "No more Mr. Nice Guy" journey. I ordered the book (should be here any day) and I'm anxious to rid myself of that issue. It's an issue I've had since my early youth/teens.