Though Ive though of it, I havent and probably will not risk myself by confronting OM for fear I may be too angry and end up in jail risking not being there for my daughter. We talked when I first found out and we agreed that I will keep our daughter. She is SET on separating to "find herself" to do things on her own as she has never got a chance to live on her own when she was young. I love her with all my heart. I love my daughter soo much. This has been a huge wakeup call for me but even with the changes, hope is bleak. Though I still try to hang on for my daughter's sake. I made a vow that I will love her and take care of her and be there for her thru good and bad times. I dont want to give up on my wife as I love her dearly. I dont want to give up on my family but this is tryly hard on me. I am changing and am willing to do anything. Just have no direction.
