yes, lots of guilt at this stage, they need a couple of months (about6+) to process the end of the A. He won't feel safe with you for a long long time (hence the A, he went for emotional support elsewhere) so dont' beat yourself about that, it is not your fault that he needs time to readjust his priorities. Ditto the above, don't push for info, think 3+ and overnight before you ask a question and even then ask yourself if the question will promote healing or is it just to satisfy your curiosity. If you haven't yet please read "not just friends" it has awesome advice about healing from an A.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
