Wow Jar, good to hear the detachment is starting to stick. I need to have one of those "no more mr. nice guy" talks with my wife. Or just pull it out from under her.

I agree with the feeling of losing the family but of course in her mind the family is still there and will, of course, get through this with no lingering issues.

AND great comment about the shower incident. She needed to hear it.

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