See!!! Dude... that's a great idea.. sorry for the hijack, but I would like to invent a beer glass that has a digital clock that tells you where it's 5!!
I am up early today. The girls spent the night at my neighbors. My D3's first official sleepover! I didn't go anywhere last night, figuring I would see her at some point, but they made it. H called from work at 7am to see if they were home yet. "Um, no. But you just woke ME up and I have no kids." LOL
Status quo here. H asked me to go to dinner last night but that fell to the wayside when my friend needed some help with a sick baby. He also asked about going sometime soon....
I really want to call OW's H and see what he knows about this 'separation' that H claims (not speaking to/seeing OW for 2 weeks). I am going to hold off though. If *she* cut if off again, I will have no expectations. If H cut if off....
I made a call yesterday to my EAP guy from work. Getting names for a therapist for me, and sources for mediation. Just feeling a need for control/knowledge.
Wow he is pursuing you again. : ) I see that as another positive. Did he seem hurt when you declined his offer? I am thinking this may be something to be careful of. If he was feeling rejected before. Although with the great heart you have that was so nice you helped a friend with a sick baby. I am sure she appreciated you.
It would be interesting to see if she was the one that cut it off. Although for some reason I am thinking maybe it was your husband. She seems to have it made right now for a no moral woman. She can date and so can her husband.
That is great about the therapy. I need to find one also. My husband and I fought so hard to reconcile. But he is falling into some of his old behaviors. (depression wise I believe) I find myself detaching so much. Maybe some therapy would help.
trying, this friend of mine has 5 kids and is a pediatrician. She is amazing to us, think house calls at 2am, prescriptions written with no office visit....H totally understood why I cancelled. He even came down to help.
I am so sorry about your H lately. Detaching is good, but the reason why is painful. Thinking of you.
And yes, I will accept his offer next time, even if there is no R talk. Just time with him might be a good thing.....
