My therapist said it this way yesterday: "Your wife and you have entirely different PERCEPTIONS of the world around them, your perception comes from being forced INTO reality everyday, and hers perception comes from attempting to ESCAPE FROM THE REALITY SHE HAS CREATED everyday. So, having said that of course she is going to see things differently."
The way I see it, the farther you move from reality the closere you become to insanity, so nothing she ever says and in fact nothing said on this entire board comes as a huge surprise, these people are caught in a divorce trap, their brains have been captured and they dont make any sense to the rest of us down here on earth.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
