Sounds pretty crazy to me. That message from MIL was out of left field I'm assuming. This is something that I worry about with my MIL, as well. I try not to put H down in front of her, ever. They know what he did was wrong. I also ask that she not talk about OW with me. This helps me and her. I have a very close bond with my MIL and the rest of his family. I would hate to get a letter like that. I hope that today finds you in better spirits. Sounds like you H may be rethinking his decisions. Mine is still way too confusing. Good luck.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him