I guess I don't understand. I thought she might read it and reflect on my changes and reflect on how I feel about the last two straws if I apologized in writing. However, she might already know that as you say and it might not mean anything. A part of the point of the email was to throw in the idea of resolving the papers amicably and to talk face to face. I doubt calling would be the proper way. Like I said earlier, I've really not done anything in a long time to do anything significantly different and this would be something different. I do see some of your point, maybe just remain dark, if it happens it happens.
I also don't get the "time to fight". How do I not go overboard especially when the fighting is over 5D. All I want is equal time. I told that I wanted equal time with 5D months ago, but she will not change the paper language. She says that we will continue to do the current equal time arrangement, but as I have said the papers need to say it. Seems like my only fighting option is to file fault which does not seem the way to go. However, it would make her feel like I do and certainly not a doormat. Don't think it makes me an attractive option however.
