To further clarify my current position/philosophy. If a man won't admire my cow or pet my bunny or spank my monkey, I won't break any commitments I may have made to him or myself but I will make it abundantly clear that I no longer hold him to any commitments he may have made to me. His paper will become worthless in my bank.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
