Sounds good to me. Your H sounds so business like in so many of his interactions with you (i.e. "I'm going to go to the bathroom, brush my teeth and then make love to you") that I think this approach is as good as any plus like you said it's good that you're owning your actions.
Actually I find your H more baffling than LFL's H and they don't seem all that similar to me. Going 2 months without ML is NOT the same as a year and especially given the fact that LFL's H has been able to initiate sex all along even when it's not exactly how she would like it (until now :)) While your H seems much more inhibited and avoiding with sex. I can't imagine you being able to have a similar open conversation with your H about sex as LFL and her H did last night.
Regardless I hope you are able to communicate enough with your H for him to realize this is a real issue for you.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
