wow, that's creepy. My friend said the exact same thing and it was the turnnig point in her M too. Her H was definitely a f@ckbuddy type, not a lover. They are in the process of D. So she is in search of the sex-love connection. There's really nothing better.
I should make it clear that I don't think people are any particular "type". I think everyone has the whole animal group but sometimes it's just hard to integrate the zoo or manifest one particular but important animal in relation to somebody else. I think it is entirely possible that my 2bx could grow/change and/or meet a woman who would make it easier for him to manifest as St. Bernard. I was part of the problem but it remains true that I can't possibly fix his half.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
